The Subtle art of not giving a fuck is one of the best self growth books ever written. The writer writes the book in a really intersting manner.Mark Manson conveys the message in a beautiful way and describes it clearly.This book is filled with many entertaining and interesting stories which makes the reader to understand the point.According to Mark ,self improvement is really about prioritizing better values,giving fucks to better things.Because when you give better fucks you get better problems and when you get better problems you get better like.Author discusses about counterintuitive values that are the most beneficial values one can adopt.These values are very unconventional and uncomfortable.But they are life changing.The author beautifully explains that ''With great responsibility comes great power''.The more we choose to accept responsibility in our lives,the more power we will exercise over our lives.Accepting responsibility for our problems is thu...
This is one of the best selling books of all time.This book shares some tips and techniques to improve our personality.It tells you how to talk to people,how to make friends and how to make human relationships better. This book covers 4 sections.The
first section states some Fundamental techniques in handling people.The
second section tells good ways to make people like you.The third
section is all about influencing the people and how to win them to your
way of thinking.The last section tells you about how to change people
without giving offense or arousing resentment.Let's discuss these sections in detail-
- Fundamental techniques in handling people-
2.Give honest and sincere appreciation- Let's cease thinking of our accomplishments,our wants.Let's figure out the other person's good points.Then forget flattery.Give honest,sincere appreciation.Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise",and people will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime-repeat them years after you have forgotten them.
3.Arouse in other person an eager want-So the only way on earth to influence others is to talk about what they want and show them how to get it.Just try to see things from other person's point of view.
- How to make people like you-
1.Become genuinely interested in other people-You can make more friends by becoming interested on other people,by giving attention to them,by greeting them with enthusiasm and animation.
2. Heartwarming Smile-Smile makes a good impression.Your smile brightens the lives of all who see it.It is a messenger of your good will.
3. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language-People are so proud of their names that they strive to perpetuate them at any cost.We should be aware of the magic contained in name and realize that this single item is wholly and completely owned by the person with whom we are dealing and nobody else.The name sets the individual apart;it makes him or her unique among all others.From waitress to the
executive,the name will work magic as we deal with others.
You must implement the principles written in this book.Make sure you read this book not only once or twice but 5 times as the author suggests.Many important tips are given in this book with good examples in an impressive format.
Happy reading!!!
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