The Subtle art of not giving a fuck is one of the best self growth books ever written. The writer writes the book in a really intersting manner.Mark Manson conveys the message in a beautiful way and describes it clearly.This book is filled with many entertaining and interesting stories which makes the reader to understand the point.According to Mark ,self improvement is really about prioritizing better values,giving fucks to better things.Because when you give better fucks you get better problems and when you get better problems you get better like.Author discusses about counterintuitive values that are the most beneficial values one can adopt.These values are very unconventional and uncomfortable.But they are life changing.The author beautifully explains that ''With great responsibility comes great power''.The more we choose to accept responsibility in our lives,the more power we will exercise over our lives.Accepting responsibility for our problems is thu...
This book is short and written in an easy to understand language and can be completed in a day.This book gives you some tips and techniques of how to deal with people and improve our communication skills.
Some tips are-
1.Handle the human ego-You have to lower your self to be petty.Help other to like themselves better:satisfy their hunger for self-esteem.Anyone is more agreeable, more understanding and more co-operative if you feed the ego....not with insincere flattery,but with genuine compliments and real praise.
2.Become a master conversationalist-Get people talking about themselves.If you can stimulate others to talk,you will acquire a reputation as a good conversationalist.Use happy talk.
You need to know what people want;what they need;and who they are in order to deal them effectively.
3.Develop an attractive personality-Use the triple A formula
Acceptance-Those who accept and like people and like people,and accept them just as they ,have the most influence in changing others behaviour for the better.
Approval-When others get a taste of your approval,they will begin to change their behaviour so that they can gain approval for other things,seek things out;praise;and watch people glow!
Appreciation-Thank people.Treat people as special.
Implement the principles written in this blog and in the book in your life and achieve success and happiness.
Happy reading!!!
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